Unequally yoked

By Tam Watts

There's a Cost of Unequally Yoked Connections...

See...Being unequally yoked doesn't always mean sinner vs. saint.

Sometimes it's disciplined vs. distracted.

Faithful vs. flaky.

Focused vs. comfortable...

Purposeful vs. emotional.

And if you don't learn to discern the difference, you'll be connected in relationships calling them loyal when they're really delay.

Unequally yoked called chemistry confirmation.

Calling trauma bonds a soul mate.

And you'll convince yourself it's love when really, it's warfare.

Choosing to be unequally yoked will cost you more than you can ever imagine.

It will cost you time...years you can't get back.

It will cost you money...funding what God never approved.

It will cost you peace...because confusion becomes the new normal.

Wholeness because you'll keep breaking yourself to fix someone else.

Discernment because you can miss God's voice while trying to hear theirs.

See...the enemy doesn't just send attacks, he sends attachments that are on assignment.

He'll make you think you're rescuing someone when really, you're the one being hunted.

He'll make you think you're planting seeds of faith when really, they are growing weeds in your garden.

And here's what I learned the hard way...

Your light doesn't always transfer.

Sometimes it just gets dimmer without you even knowing it.

Because while you're trying to save them, they're draining your oil.

And by the time you realize it you're too tired, too confused, and too spiritually exhausted to think clearly...because the enemy doesn't mind if you go to church to find peace, as long as you're comfortable keep war at home.

Look at the Bible..

Samson was anointed but when he connected with Delilah he lost strength and was distracted from his mission.

Solomon had wisdom...but foreign wives turned his heart away from God and messed up his bloodline.

Every story proves the same truth...every wrong connection leads to destruction.

You can be powerful, prayerful, and still pick the wrong person if you're not careful...

You can speak in tongues and still sleep next to someone sent to test you...

You can quote Scripture and still ignore who was sent to hurt you.

So be careful who you align with.

The enemy knows your type.

He knows what looks safe to you but is poison to you.

So before you connect...pray

Before you commit...discern.

Before you call it connection...make sure it's God approved.

Because the price of peace

is too high to waste on people who were never assigned to your purpose.

Let that sink in.