I started this blog soon after the death of my beautiful 17-year-old son, Hayden, as a way to deal with my grief. I titled it "Dear Hayden" because at first I wrote as if I was writing to him. My use of the word "dear" ended up being twofold: "used as an affectionate or friendly form of address" and "regarded with deep affection; cherished by someone." Many posts are saved quotes, song lyrics, Bible verses, poems, etc. with credit given to the actual authors as much as possible. Enjoy~
Wednesday, April 27, 2022
Never cared
Love anything
by C.S. Lewis
Tuesday, April 26, 2022
Thorns
I've recorded a few of these stories from I Love Psalms, and even though I don't like how they're written, I really like the messages...
Frequency
The pit
Monday, April 25, 2022
News
From God's Revival 2018
Loving someone
Prosperity
From God's Revival 2018
Friday, April 22, 2022
Deepest fear
A repost but definitely worth repeating...
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. ~Marianne Williamson
The most beautiful heart
One day a young man was standing in the middle of town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said, "Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't quite fit right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places, there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing. How can he say his heart is more beautiful they thought! The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man. "Yours is perfect-looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart, which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, some have rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared.
Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges - giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart was in his. They embraced and walked away side by side.
Moral - Love one another sincerely just as your father God loves you.
Living without
End of the day
Posted by Dave Ramsey
Save everyone
You can't save everyone, and I know you, with that big, beautiful heart will always try to save everyone, even the ones that hurt you. But, babe...I hope you remember, not everyone has a heart like yours, not everyone can be saved, but you can...you can. Save yourself. I dare you to put yourself first for once and save yourself. You're worth it.
~Stephanie Bennett-Henry
Thursday, April 21, 2022
Not yet
Wednesday, April 20, 2022
Grows up
Your life
A gift to me
It's Brave
I Think It's Brave
Thursday, April 14, 2022
Something stressful
Harsh enough
Every storm
Big dreams
From Victoria Osteen
Monday, April 11, 2022
Real worship
Thursday, April 7, 2022
Desk quotes
Introverts
Wednesday, April 6, 2022
What has been lost
From God's Revival 2018
The struggle
Have experienced this many times over...
Little rooms
Nothing
Most precious gift
Ordinary things
Jo from Grace Group sent this to me...
Perfect
Seek Me
From God's Revival 2018
Seek Me with all of your might. Let Me be upon your mind your heart and soul. Let there be no other. For it is I who have brought provision. I have sustained your health. I have kept you safe. I have brought peace to your body and given you a place of rest. I have made a way where there was no way. I have blessed the fruit of your loins. I have answered every request. I have made you a fortified city. You have been established as a pillar in My temple. I have given you life abundantly. I have separated you from all unrighteousness. I have built you up as to withstand the storm. In the time of the flood you shall not be moved nor shall your walls give way. I have given you life when you were ready to give it up. I brought you from the darkness into the marvelous light. You are one of My great masterpieces. Remember that I am the potter and you are the clay. You are here for My purpose. I will show you off because you have kept My word. You have trusted Me in the darkest times. Your faith has brought you from the bottom to the top. And because you have desired righteousness instead of wickedness I shall establish your peace with Me for eternity. Blessed are those that keep themselves holy. Blessed are those that put Me first. Blessed are those that have overcome their flesh and all the temptations of the world. Blessed are you because you have proved yourself as a doer and not merely one who is a hearer. Blessed are you who have been approved. Blessed are those who wear the garments of righteousness. Blessed are those who have chosen Me.
Tuesday, April 5, 2022
Kind of love
Refiner's Fire
by A.W. Tozer
Refiner's Fire
Prayer
From God's Revival 2018
Monday, April 4, 2022
Wisdom
From God's Revival 2018
Rejoice or grumble
By A.W. Tozer
REJOICE - OR GRUMBLE
Friday, April 1, 2022
So blessed
From God's Revival 2018
Everything you need
From Max Lucado
Too much
From @theguidedword
Internal struggle
From Vintage Vivids