I started this blog soon after the death of my beautiful 17-year-old son, Hayden, as a way to deal with my grief. I titled it "Dear Hayden" because at first I wrote as if I was writing to him. My use of the word "dear" ended up being twofold: "used as an affectionate or friendly form of address" and "regarded with deep affection; cherished by someone." Many posts are saved quotes, song lyrics, Bible verses, poems, etc. with credit given to the actual authors as much as possible. Enjoy~
Monday, October 31, 2022
The one
Wants to forget
They are aware
Trust me, they are aware.
They left
Her walls
Always suffer
I asked my friend why I always suffer in relationships? Then he told me this:
Breathe
Beautiful disaster
Friday, October 28, 2022
Daily bread
There is a story of a grocery store owner who tried to weigh one. (?) A tired-looking woman came into the store and asked for enough food for her children. The grocer asked her how much she could spend. The frail woman answered, "I have nothing to offer but a little prayer."
The storekeeper was not very sentimental nor religious, so he said, half-mockingly, "Write it on paper, and I'll weigh it."
So she did. The grocer placed the prayer on the weight side of his old-fashioned scales. Then he began piling food on the other side; but to his amazement, the scale would not go down. He finally became flustered and gave the woman a large bag of food.
The grocer never saw the woman again, but he treasures the slip of paper upon which the woman's prayer had been written:
"Please, Lord, give us this day our daily bread."
Not done yet
dammit, I'm not done yet-
NOT being nice
This is not being nice; It's people-pleasing:
- Accepting blame to keep the peace
- Operating beyond your capacity
- Disregarding your needs
- Allowing people who haven't changed back into your life
- Doing for others what they could do for themselves (enabling)
- Going out of the way to accommodate people
- Being passive
- Remaining silent when you have an issue
So alive
"His soul" part 3
Thursday, October 27, 2022
Trouble
Choose to love
Dangerous love
"Dangerous love"
Beautiful soul
Tuesday, October 25, 2022
Kiss you
Creates it
Way you are
Women's Magazine:
Friday, October 21, 2022
Five men
Written about 5 missionaries killed in Ecuador in 1965:
So fast
Miss me
Tell a lot
Pretty face
Always you
Like her
Restless nights
Loving too much
On my way
My favorite
Nowhere
"Nowhere"
Not a weakness
A chance
Always
Money as well
Monday, October 17, 2022
Two roads
Didn't look that stupid
Steals the show
Her soul
Except with me
Awareness
Thursday, October 13, 2022
Pieces
By Elisabeth Elliott
Faith
By Kathryn Kuhlman
You are
Worth loving
Someone else's eyes
Off guard
Best version
Monday, October 10, 2022
Someone kind
Manipulative
Enduring
Too vulnerable
Something He knows
Complete
What you deserve
Friday, October 7, 2022
Only once
By Bob Marley
Maybe
Thursday, October 6, 2022
Like home
Fierce vulnerability
All at once
Worst
A 10
She's a 10 but dated (was married to) a narcissist for years so there's not a single thing a man can say that she doesn't think is a lie.
Cannot replace
A weakness
Multiply it
Wednesday, October 5, 2022
Paradise to protect
Say the words
To the surface
Blame the bee
Be proud
Tuesday, October 4, 2022
Forgive
My mother once told me: "Every time you forgive him, he will love you a little more, but you will stop loving him, so the day he loves you the most you will not feel anything for him anymore."
Boundaries sound like
Moon/sun
Moon/Sun
Fabric of reality
By R. Clift
Umbreakable
From Warrior Women
Completely home
From girlgi.com
All that I lost
breakthrough