Redirecting

 From HeartMend

Healing from an avoidant person is one of the hardest emotional lessons you'll ever experience. You'll learn that no matter how much love you give, you can't make someone feel safe if they're still at war with themselves.

You can't love someone into emotional availability. You can't chase someone who fears being seen. You can't fix what they refuse to face. And most importantly, you'll learn that letting them go isn't giving up, it's accepting reality with grace.

It takes time to accept that love isn't enough when fear runs deeper. That sometimes, the person you love most isn't capable of giving you the connection you deserve. But healing teaches you to stop confusing their fear for rejection and to start choosing yourself over their patterns.

You can love them and still let them go. You can care about their pain while no longer sacrificing your peace. And when you finally release them, you'll realize that healing didn't mean stopping the love, it meant redirecting it back to yourself.

What Healing From an Avoidant 

Teaches You

You can't love someone into emotional safety.

You can't chase someone who fears being seen.

You can't fix what they won't face.

You can love them -- and still need to let them go.

~Coach Tynell