Not chasing

 From If you miss me

She's not chasing you. She's not fighting for a 

place in your life because she finally understands

that what's meant for her won't need convincing.

She's not here to constantly prove her value or

remind anyone of her worth...she knows exactly

who she is. She's the kind of woman who's been 

through enough to recognize the difference 

between attention and effort, between being

wanted and being valued. She's aware of her

flaws, she's faced her demons, and she's healed

from pain that she never even spoke about. That's

why she carries herself differently now...calm,

focused, at peace.

She doesn't beg for love, she attracts it by being

genuine. She's not going to explain her energy, her

boundaries, or why she doesn't entertain certain

people anymore. She's done with surface-level

conversations and empty connections. Her time is 

precious now, her peace is sacred, and she won't

waste either trying to prove her worth to someone

who can't see it on their own.

If she keeps you in her life, it's because she sees

something real in you. If she lets you go, it's

because she's learned to stop forcing what isn't

aligned with her growth. She's not cold, she's just

selective. She's not difficult, she's just evolved.

And if you're lucky enough to to be in her world, 

understand that it's not by accident...it's a

privilege. Because she's not the type of woman

you meet twice.