Can y'all please stop pretending you're ready to date someone who's broken. If you're not willing to jump in the shower fully clothed just to hold them as they cry - leave them alone. If you are not going to bring them the one thing you know they will eat even when they claim not to be hungry and you know they haven't eaten all day - walk away. If you are not ready to calm them after they wake up scared out of their mind from a nightmare - leave them be. If you are going to make them feel crazy over the insecurities and problems their past has created for them - stay away from them. If you can't handle constant worrying - don't bother them. If you refuse to communicate and let them know what's going on to ease their mind - just don't. Stop getting broken people attached to you when you know you're going to leave. Broken people do not get to decide when they are okay again - so stop expecting them to change and start accepting the pieces of them that are unchangeable. The more you break something the harder it is to put back together, and even if you do it will never be the same. Stop rebreaking broken people. It's cruel.
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