Struggle love

 From Deep Minds Anonymous

Don't date broke men. And no, this 

isn't about gold-digging or expecting

a man to buy you designer bags and 

fancy dinners. This is deeper than

money. It's about emotional stability,

peace, and what it means to be in a

relationship where love can grow 

without chaos. Because when a man 

is in financial survival mode, he often

can't love you gently. If there's no

peace in his pockets, there will be no

peace with you. He's constantly

stressed, on edge, fighting invisible

battles in his head, questioning his 

worth, comparing his life to others,

and feeling like he's failing. And

unfortunately, that weight starts to

fall on the people closest to him.

You'll feel it when he becomes

emotionally unavailable, snapping

over small things, shutting down 

instead of opening up, turning cold

when you ask for affection, or even

resenting you simply for being a

witness to his struggle. It's not that

he doesn't love you. It's that he

doesn't love himself in that state. And

until he finds peace within his own

life, you'll always feel like you're

loving him through a storm that never

passes. So no, it's not about the

money. It's about what his lack of 

stability does to his spirit, and how

that slowly spills into yours. Struggle

love isn't romantic. Suffering

together isn't a badge of honor. And

being his peace while he's constantly 

in pieces will drain the life out of you.

You deserve love that feels like

security, not survival. A man who

doesn't just want to provide

financially, but emotionally too. A

man who brings calm to your world,

not chaos. So don't feel guilty for

wanting stability. That's not shallow.

That's protection. Let him heal. Let 

him build. Let him find himself. But

don't let him break you in the process.