The opportunity

 From Recession

BOUNDARIES!!

If I don't like the way you speak to me, I won't give you the opportunity to speak to me anymore.

If I don't like the way you deal with me, I won't give you the opportunity to deal with me anymore.

If I don't like the way I feel around you, I won't allow myself to be in that position anymore.

If I can't change these things, I will remind myself that your behavior is a reflection of you, not me.