Fitting in

By Donna Ashworth

Fitting in and belonging are not the same energy. You can't

feel as though you belong, anywhere, until you make a

home for yourself in your own soul. A place where you are

safe - whether flawed, achieving or in rest. Fitting in is the 

ego's desire to be like the rest, to move with the crowd. It is

fuelled by the unhealed parts we weren't taught to nurture 

early on. But it's never too late. To feel that you belong, you

must decide that you do. Accept yourself through your own

front door and make a home for life. You'll never feel the

urge to fit in again, if you belong to yourself.