WOG

 (Just realized that WOG means Women of God)

From Fred Jones

WOG...hear me carefully

A man who is still attracted to Delilahs and

Jezebels will ALWAYS mishandle a Deborah...and

NEVER recognize the value of an Esther

And before you take it personal...understand

THIS:

Some men don't reject good women because the

woman lacks value...

they reject her because she requires a version of

them they haven't become yet.

Jezebel feels easier to an unhealed man. Why?

Because Jezebel doesn't challenge him to grow.

She only requires his attention...not his

transformation.

She can sit in dysfunction with him.

She can flirt with his flesh.

She can comfort his immaturity.

She can feed his ego while his life stays broken.

But a Deborah? A Deborah carries wisdom.

Correction. Discernment. Order. Purpose. And

immature men confuse accountability with attack.

That's why some men run from women who carry

oil because oil exposes what performance tries to

hide.

Hear this revelation: Jezebel will celebrate the

version of him that God is trying to kill. But Esther?

Esther sees the KING in him. And a man who is

not ready to become a king will always choose

what feeds his comfort over what calls him higher.

Some men are not rejecting YOU...they are

rejecting the responsibility attached to you.

Because real women require

• consistency
• discipline
• leadership
• healing
• emotional maturity

And wounded men usually choose women who

help them hide from those things. That's deep.

Jezebel strokes his ego...but Deborah

strengthens his identity. One makes him FEEL

powerful. The other actually CALLS him into power.

And insecure men will almost always choose

flattery over growth.

Why? Because growth costs. Healing costs.

Maturity costs. Jezebel says: "Stay broken...I

can work with that." But a woman of purpose 

says: "You were born for more than this." And sadly...

some men hate mirrors more than mistakes.

Catch this. He didn't choose her because she

was BETTER. He chose her because she matched

where he was spiritually. WHEW.

A lot of women keep shrinking themselves trying

to become easier to hold...But baby, stop dimming

your light to fit into the hands of somebody scared

of brightness. You are not "too much." You

are simply too weighty for immature hands.

And hear me by the Spirit. A healed man...

a God-built man...a mature man...will NEVER be

intimidated by your wisdom, your standards, your

purpose, or your oil. WHY? Because his spirit will 

recognize what Heaven sent. He won't compete 

with you. He won't fear your strength. He won't

resent your growth.

• He will SEE you
• He will VALUE you
• He will COVER you
• He will CHOOSE you

So stop grieving people who lacked the capacity

to carry what God placed in your life. Destiny

never competes with distraction. And the right

man? He won't need to be convinced about you

value. His spirit will recognize your oil instantly...

because he'll finally be a man whose character

can handle that.