Monday, July 13, 2026

Restoration

 Restoration is precious because it costs someone something.

Beautiful

 One thing that became
clearer as I got older:
people are not beautiful for 
how they look or speak.
They're beautiful for how they
love, care, and treat others.

Overthink

Here's a 
gentle
reminder - 

If you can 
overthink
the worst
you can 
overthink
the best.

Sold as

Porn = loneliness sold as intimacy.
Alcohol= poison sold as escape.
Drugs = numbness sold as peace.
Scrolling = distraction sold as rest.
Fast food = harm sold as pleasure.
Notifications = control sold as urgency.
Social media = validation sold as connection.

The best parts of being human 
deserve more than artificial fuel.

Nowhere by accident

Jen Young shared this on our ladies' group text...

Blessing: Nowhere By Accident by Richard Halverson

You go nowhere by accident.
Wherever you go, God is sending you.
Wherever you are, God has put you there.
God has a purpose in your being there.
Christ lives in you and has something He wants to do through you where you are.
Believe this and go in the grace and love and power of Jesus Christ.

(Richard Halverson was the former chaplain of the U.S. Senate)

His notebook

     WHAT GOD WRITES IN
HIS NOTEBOOK ABOUT YOU

~She kept going today, even though nobody would have known if she didn't.
~She almost sent that text. She didn't. I'm proud of her.
~She's softer than she was six months ago. She hasn't noticed yet.
~She's carrying more than she's told anyone. I see it.
~She's stopped seeking approval from people who never really saw her.
~She's about to surprise herself. She has no idea.
~She's mine. She always has been.

~jacqueline whitney

Friday, July 10, 2026

Staying

 By Mary Ann Mateo Rigor

Staying after betrayal is its own kind of heartbreak.

People often think that walking away is the hardest
decision. But sometimes, choosing to stay
requires even more strength. Every day becomes a 
quiet battle between wanting to believe again and
remembering everything that happened. You want
to move forward, but the pain doesn't disappear
just because the affair is over.

When someone stays, it doesn't mean they've
forgotten or that everything is suddenly okay. It
means they're waking up each day and choosing
to try, even while carrying questions, fears, and
memories they never asked for. Rebuilding trust
isn't something that happens with one apology. It
happens through time, consistency, and a
willingness to repair what was broken.

Some betrayals leave wounds that can't be seen.
The affair may end, but healing is a much longer
journey. For the person who stays, every step 
forward is an act of courage, because loving again
after being deeply hurt is never as simple as 
deciding to stay.