Consume you

 Don't allow others to consume you.

If they don't call, go to sleep.

If they don't message you, put away your phone

and have a good day.

If they are distant and refuse to tell you what's wrong,

go home and do something fun.

You live for yourself first.

They are secondary.

~Detached by Sabrina Bendory

Power to destroy

 Love is giving someone the

power to destroy you but

trusting them not to.

Transactional

 A conscious relationship is

not transactional. It is not

about "I give you x,y,z, SO

you give me x,y,z in return."

A conscious relationship is

rooted in devotion. Devotion

says: "I offer my full heart to

you. I am all-in. I give not

because I expect something in

return, but because nothing brings

me greater joy than seeing you

thrive."

A conscious relationship is not transactional.

It is not about "I give you this, so you give me that" or keeping score of who did more, who tried harder, or who sacrificed more. It's not built on silent expectations, hidden contracts, or emotional bargaining.

A conscious relationship is rooted in devotion.

Devotion says, "I offer my full heart to you. I am all-in. I give not because I expect something in return, but because nothing brings me greater joy than seeing you thrive."

It's choosing each other every day, not out of obligation, but out of intention. It's showing up with honesty, with presence, with a willingness to grow - not just as individuals, but together.

It's understanding that love is not a trade, it's a connection. Not a deal, but a deep alignment of souls who are committed to building something real, something steady, something meaningful.

And in that kind of love, both people give freely...and somehow neither feels empty.

Galaxies

From Ruth Writes

He holds galaxies -- spins stars into place without 

strain, calls light out of darkness like it's nothing.

Yet somehow, He leans close when your voice

shakes in prayer.

The same hands that stretched the heavens wide

are the ones that steady your soul when it feels

like it's falling apart.

You are not lost in the vastness.

You are not overlooked in the noise.

The God who commands the universe

still pauses for the quiet breaking of your heart.

And He will hold you steady like how he holds the

galaxies in their place.

~Ruth

He holds galaxies, yet He notices

when your heart trembles.

Truly love

 MEN WHO LOVE TRULY ARE TERRIFYINGLY

BEAUTIFUL:

When you become a man's favorite

woman, something shifts in him. He'll skip

hangouts without hesitation, laugh at your

silliest tantrums, and turn into a playful little

boy to match your mood.

He gives up his favorite seat, slides the best

piece of food onto your plate, and

somehow he learns patience...

and the most beautiful part? He doesn't

even realize he's changing. He is more

careful. He chooses his words more softly.

He starts building a future in his head, and

somehow, you're in every version of it. He

just knows your comfort matters. Your

smile feels like a victory. Your tears feel like

something he wants to fix...

Because when a man truly loves, he 

doesn't just give you his heart. He makes

you his home.

Confirmation

From Rashad and Tracy

A CONFIRMATION MESSAGE FROM GOD ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP:

God is telling you today:

I'm the one who brought you guys together!

Look at the way you both smile around each other...

the way your mood shifts when you're together...

the peace you feel i the little moments.

That's not by accident.

I see how he cares for you.

The effort he makes, even in small ways.

The way he tries, even when he doesn't always get it perfect.

That's real.

You've been overthinking...wondering if this is right...

but I wouldn't place something in your life just to confuse you.

Where I am, there is peace.

So stop looking for problems where there is growth.

Stop questioning something that's been bringing you joy.

This relationship isn't perfect...

but it's being shaped, strengthened, and guided by Me.

Keep choosing each other.

Keep being patient.

Keep building something real together.

What you have is special...and I'm covering it.

Trust Me...I'm in this with you.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says:

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.

Do it all

 They say:

"Don't cross oceans for people who

wouldn't cross a puddle for you."

But I say nahhhh: do it, cross those

oceans, give people your light...how

lucky are we to have hearts that are so

full of love to give? Allow others the

chance to experience you and never 

look back...