Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Stop overthinking

 STOP OVERTHINKING.

IF IT'S GOD'S WILL, IT'LL
HAPPEN AND NOTHING WILL
STOP IT. IF IT'S NOT, HE HAS
 A BETTER PLAN. HAVE
PEACE IN KNOWING THAT.

The detour

I saw a quote today
that's been stuck in 
my mind ever since:

"God protects you in
a way that feels like
bad luck at first."

Trust the detour.

Being ignored

 When a woman is faced with a situation
where she is being ignored by her
partner,
there are two ways she will respond.

First, she will get angry, seem demanding,
and always ask, "What did I do wrong?"
If she does that, it means she's still trying
to save the relationship.

Second, she will choose to stay silent and
not care.
That means her heart is truly exhausted.,
and she's trying to save her own peace of mind.

Decide

 An unhealed person can
find offense in pretty much
anything someone does.

A healed person understands
that the actions of others
have nothing to do with them.

Each day you get to decide
which one you will be.

Stop

 If you're lying awake tonight wondering how you're
supposed to stop loving them, don't try to stop all at 
once; just stop reaching for them. Stop checking on
them, stop reopening the wound, and let the feelings
exist without acting on them. Eventually, the space
between what you feel and what you do will become
the place where your healing takes place.

~Mark Smith

The ability

You have the 
ability to move
entire planets
with your love,
yet you've
settled for 
lovers who
wouldn't touch a 
mountain for you.

Lost you

 You didn't lose him, he lost you.
Because what did you really lose?
A man who can't communicate?
A man who gets mad when you express your feelings?
A man who entertains other women?

An emotionally unavailable man?

No, you didn't lose a single thing of value.
You gained the freedom to find someone
who truly values and respects you,
who can communicate honestly,
and who is emotionally available.

You gained absolutely everything by 
letting go of a man who never
deserved you in the first place.