From Avril Nur Huda
HE CHOSE YOU - DON'T MAKE HIM REGRET IT
Your husband is the only man who loved you by choice.
Your parents love you because you are their child.
Your siblings love you because you share blood.
Your children love you because you are their mother.
But your husband?
He was not born obligated to love you.
Out of all the women he could have chosen, he chose you.
Your name. Your flaws. Your personality. Your future.
He chose you to stay loyal to you. To provide for you.
To protect you. To carry responsibilities for you.
That choice is not something small.
So don't treat him like he's easily replaceable.
Don't ignore the man who sacrifices quietly for you every single day.
A good man may stay silent, but silence does not mean he feels nothing.
He notices disrespect.
He notices coldness.
He notices lack of appreciation.
And slowly, the man who once felt lucky to have you can start feeling alone beside you.
Marriage is not maintained by love alone.
It is maintained through respect, softness, loyalty, attention, and appreciation.
The man who chose you also needs to feel chosen by you.
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