Hurting her

 From Real talk zone

Imagine hurting her when God sent her to you...to

heal you, take care of you, love you, support you,

stick by you & show you pure unconditional love...

all she needed from you was for you to respect

and value her. So don't be upset when He takes

her away.

Some women come into your life when you are at

your lowest. When you're lost, broken, angry at

the world, emotionally exhausted, carrying

wounds nobody else cared enough to notice. She

stayed through the mood swings, the overthinking,

the distance, the hard days, and the moments 

when loving you wasn't easy at all.

She prayed for you when you couldn't pray for

yourself. She defended you behind your back. She

tried to understand your pain instead of judging it.

She gave you patience when you deserved to be

left alone. She gave you loyalty in a generation

where loyalty is rare. She poured genuine love into

places inside you that had been empty for years.

And while she was trying to heal you, you wer

hurting her.

You took her softness for weakness. Her

forgiveness became something you expected

instead of appreciated. You stopped valuing the

little things she did. You stopped reassuring her.

You stopped protecting the heart that was

protecting yours. You made her question herself

while she was doing everything she could to make

your life better.

The saddest part is...women like that don't leave

quickly. They stay longer than they should

because they truly love deeply. They keep hoping

you'll finally see her worth. They keep believing

the man they fell in love with is still there

somewhere underneath the pride, the lies, the

selfishness, or the emotional immaturity.

But eventually, even the purest hearts get tired.

And when she finally walks away, don't call her

cold. Don't say she gave up. Don't act shocked

that the energy changed. You slowly taught her

that loving you meant losing herself. So she chose

herself for once.

Sometimes God removes people from your life

because you mishandled the blessing He gave

you. And when a woman loved you with honesty,

loyalty, peace, and unconditional care, but all she

asked for in return was respect and appreciation...

losing her is a consequence you'll feel long after

she's gone.

Imagine hurting her when God

sent her to you...to heal you, take

care of you, love you, support

you, stick by you & show you

pure unconditional love...all she

needed from you was for you to

respect and value her. So don't be

upset when He takes her away