Trust yourself

From The Redeemed Marriage

After betrayal, everyone talks about rebuilding

trust in your spouse. But there's another kind of

trust that can get shaken too.

Trust in yourself.

You start wondering how you missed it. You replay

conversations and question your own judgment.

Sometimes you even wonder if you'll ever be able

to trust what you feel or believe again.

That part of healing took time for us too. But

eventually you begin to realize that being deceived

doesn't mean you were foolish. And you don't

have to spend the rest of your life second

guessing everything just because someone once

gave you a reason to.

Healing isn't only learning to trust your spouse

again. Sometimes it's learning to trust yourself

again too.