Wednesday, October 21, 2026

Sought

I sought the Lord and He
heard and He answered.
That's why I trust Him.

Productive

The reason you can't relax is
because you've tied your identity to
being productive. Doing nothing
feels like being no one. That's a
problem. You are not your output.
You exist between the tasks too.

Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Self-compassion

Self-compassion on 
anxious days looks like...

  • Not asking yourself "What's wrong with me?" every time anxiety shows up
  • Reminding yourself that "I don't have to figure this out right now."
  • Not getting frustrated with yourself for wanting reassurance even if you're working on relying on it less
  • Letting yourself have a lower capacity day without it meaning that you're falling behind
  • Reminding yourself "Of course I want certainty right now. I'm uncomfortable."
  • Talking to yourself like someone who is struggling, not someone who needs to be fixed
  • Giving yourself what you need in the moment, even if the anxious part of you thinks you should be doing more
  • Not judging yourself for having the same anxious thought you've had a hundred times before
  • Remembering that having anxiety is hard enough. You don't need to be hard on yourself too.


Hold on

 Joy comes
in the morning.
HOLD ON
through 
the night.

Feel like control

 Things That Feel Like Control
(But Are Actually Anxiety)



Feels like:  Being prepared
But might actually be:   Fear of uncertainty

Feels like:   Being careful
But might actually be:  Discomfort intolerance

Feels like:  Being responsible
But might actually be:  Avoidance in disguise

Feels like:  Staying in control
But might actually be:  Anxiety asking for relief


The goal isn't control.
                            It's learning to live without needing it.                              


                  

Finish the year

From Jacqueline Whitney

You still have time to finish this year differently than you started it. You can make peace with what happened, stop punishing yourself for what you didn't know, and give God the things you've spent months trying to figure out alone. Imagine how much lighter you could feel entering 2027 without carrying everything that made this year so difficult.

3 things to give back to God before 2026 ends

1.  The guilt you carry over things you cannot change. You
     have spent enough time wishing you had known better, chosen       
     differently, or recognized what was happening sooner. God
     knows the person you were when you made those decisions, and
     He know the person you have become because of them. You are
     allowed to forgive yourself and move forward.

2.  The prayers you are afraid will never be answered. You do
     not have to spend the rest of this year trying to figure out when
     or how everything will happen. Give God the things you still
     hope for, even the ones you have almost stopped believing in.
     You can trust His timing without giving up on the beautiful
     things you want for your life.

3.  The responsibility of making everything work out. You
     were never meant to carry the weight of every outcome, every
     relationship, and every unanswered question. Do what you can
     with the life in front of you, and let God take care of what is
     beyond your control. You do not have to enter another year 
     exhausted from trying to do His job for Him.


Be real

Be real with God about how you feel. He already knows your heart and His Word reminds us that He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in Spirit.  ~Psalm 34:18


When Elijah said,
"LORD, I WANT TO DIE."

God gave him the strength to live.
Depression is real. But so is God.
Anxiety is real. But so is hope.