Ruin you

 From Swilam Speaks

Emotionally unavailable men will ruin you.

And I'm not saying that lightly. I'm saying it from a

place of watching too many women with big 

hearts and soft souls break themselves trying to

love men who simply can't love them back.

Stay away from men who think emotional

connection is optional, who call you "too sensitive",

who make you feel like you're asking too much 

simply because you want love that feels present,

intentional, and real. Because the truth is, no 

matter how loving, loyal, or patient you are you

cannot pour into a man who's emotionally empty.

It's about him. His fears. His refusal to do the 

inner work. You deserve someone who's available.

Your softness, your empathy, they deserve a home

in a man who's ready to receive, nurture, and return

them. Don't waste your heart on a man who's numb

to love. Save your heart for someone who doesn't

just want it but knows how to hold it.