Meaningful change

 From Healing from Narcissistic...(Burki Musa)

Do men every sit and think, "Damn, she's doing everything to keep me in her life - in a generation where most people don't even try. She forgives me every time. Gives me chance after chance. Still picks me, hoping I'll change. Still trusts me with her heart, even when I mess up. And here I am taking her for granted." Some men do have moments of realization, where they recognize the effort and love they're receiving. However, it's often not enough to prompt meaningful change.

Instead, they might continue to take their partner's efforts for granted, assuming they'll always be there, no matter what. This lack of appreciation and empathy can lead to further hurt and resentment in the relationship. It's not about playing games or manipulating emotions; it's about genuinely valuing and respecting each other's needs and feelings.

When one partner consistently gives more than they receive, it can create an imbalance that affects both individuals. It's essential for both partners to communicate openly and honestly about their needs, desires, and concerns to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship. By doing so, they can work together to build a stronger, more loving connection.

Do men ever sit and think?

"Damn, she's doing everything to keep me

in her life - in a generation where most

people don't even try.

She forgives me every time.

Gives me chance after chance. Still picks

me, hoping I'll change. Still trusts me with

her heart, even when I mess up.

And here I am taking her for granted."