Monday, November 28, 2022

Healthiest person

 From @the.holistic.psychologist

In the toxic family system, the healthiest person causes friction. They create resistance in the familiar dynamics and other members become uncomfortable and triggered..

You pray

 From Kahill Gibran, The Prophet

You pray in your distress and your need; would that you might pray also in the fullness of your joy and in your days of abundance.

Uncertainty

 From Cindy Wang Brandt

It is better for a child to have a parent who has peace with uncertainty, than a parent with rigidity of doctrine masking a plethora of anxieties.

Continued  from Flying Free

This "rigidity of doctrine does the following:
  1. Creates heavy codependent burdens that destroy people's lives.
  2. Brainwashes people to see God as small and abusive.
  3. Strips away mystery and beauty and love.
  4. Stops people from learning.
  5. Foments shame and hate.
  6. Builds an ILLUSION inside us that we are always in danger of losing (or have already lost) connection with our Creator.

Lose your girl

You can lose your girl from a lack of communication, a lack of attention, or just disrespect, you do not have to cheat to lose your girl.

Conversation

 A conversation about how you feel is not supposed to end in an argument.

Wednesday, November 23, 2022

Out of patience

It was patience she ran out of
not love.

~angel lindberg vazquez

Priceless things

i don't need
fancy ways
and shiny things,
give me
slow hands,
honest eyes,
and full attention
with ease

...give me precious things.

~butterflies rising