From @the.holistic.psychologist
I started this blog soon after the death of my beautiful 17-year-old son, Hayden, as a way to deal with my grief. I titled it "Dear Hayden" because at first I wrote as if I was writing to him. My use of the word "dear" ended up being twofold: "used as an affectionate or friendly form of address" and "regarded with deep affection; cherished by someone." Many posts are saved quotes, song lyrics, Bible verses, poems, etc. with credit given to the actual authors as much as possible. Enjoy~
Monday, November 28, 2022
Healthiest person
You pray
From Kahill Gibran, The Prophet
Uncertainty
From Cindy Wang Brandt
It is better for a child to have a parent who has peace with uncertainty, than a parent with rigidity of doctrine masking a plethora of anxieties.
- Creates heavy codependent burdens that destroy people's lives.
- Brainwashes people to see God as small and abusive.
- Strips away mystery and beauty and love.
- Stops people from learning.
- Foments shame and hate.
- Builds an ILLUSION inside us that we are always in danger of losing (or have already lost) connection with our Creator.
Lose your girl
You can lose your girl from a lack of communication, a lack of attention, or just disrespect, you do not have to cheat to lose your girl.