Wednesday, September 4, 2024

Not willing to fix

Most men are not running away from a great woman.
They are running away from parts of themselves they are not willing to fix to deserve her.

You decide

 Posted by Dave Ramsey

You get to decide what you tolerate in your life.

My friend Dr. Henry Cloud wrote an excellent book on this topic called Necessary Endings. When is it necessary to end a job? A business? A relationship? It's when there's no hope in your mind that things are going to get better.

Top tier

A man who updates you because he knows how you overthink
while waiting for him is a top tier and green flag energy.

Let it starve

 I've learned that
the best way to end
something is to
let it starve. No response,
no action, no altercations,
just don't feed it.
That's where the true
power lies.

Strong man

Only a strong man can handle a strong woman.

A weak man will say she has attitude and unrealistic expectations.

Most women

Most women want
a man who's already successful.
But a strong woman will be part
of his struggle, survive it, succeed
together, and build an empire.

Two broken people

You tried manipulating me
While I tried healing you.
It's funny
Is it not?
How two broken people
Abuse differently;
One toward others 
And the other against themselves.

~The Bat Wolf