Only you

 
"You don't love 

someone for their

looks, or their

clothes, or for

their fancy car, but

because they sing a 

song only you can 

hear."

~Oscar Wilde

Not everyone

And,

she had this weird

habit of being herself

all the time;

that's why

not everyone liked her.

~Unknown

Make mistakes

 I would rather make mistakes in

kindness and compassion than work

miracles in unkindness and hardness

~Mother Teresa

Get better

Don't prioritize your looks my friend,

they won't last the journey.

Your sense of humour though, will only get better.

Your intuition will grow and expand like a majestic cloak of 

wisdom.

Your ability to choose your battles, will be fine-tuned to

perfection.

Your capacity for stillness, for living in the moment, will 

blossom.

And your desire to live each and every moment will 

transcend all other wants.

Your instinct for knowing what (and who) is worth your

time, will grow and flourish like ivy on a castle wall.

Don't prioritize your looks my friend,

they will change forevermore,

that pursuit is one of much sadness and disappointment.

Prioritize the uniqueness that makes you you, and the

invisible magnet that draws in other like-minded souls to

dance in your orbit.

These are the things which will only get better.

~Donna Ashworth

Best for you

 Someone once said:

"You know you have a big heart when you

feel bad for doing what is best for you."

And I felt that.

Don't die

From Island Healing

DON'T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD

Did you know that when you cry for your dead, you cry for yourself and not for them?

You cry because you "lost them", because you don't HAVE THEM by your side. You think, it all ends

in death. And you think they are NOT anymore.

So if your dead are gone, where are they?

Yes they have left, or they are now in another place. Is that place better than this?

Yes, definitely that place is better than this; so why do you suffer for their departure?

When you have finished accepting that they are no longer "NOT here", but they are still in another place better than this, where they are they are no longer sick or suffering.

Then you'll stop mourning them and you'll get them back in memory so they keep accompanying you with the joy of all that you've lived.

If you truly loved them, LOVE them AGAIN, and this time with greater strength, with greater purity, with greater delivery.

Today, there will be no more reproach of any kind.

Only LOVE, will be the essence between you, between us, between them.

I respect your pain, and the way you express it. I know you cry and you will cry without comfort.

But...today I say to you:

Don't die with your dead.

Remember we are only seeing one side of the coin.

We are not looking the other way; we are not seeing the wonderful place of light where they stand.

What if we start seeing "death" as a second birth?

Second birth we ALL will go through.

Don't die with your dead, honor them by living your life as they would have wanted you to, let them transcend. And you keep living.

~Author unknown 

The deal

 "...If we love, we grieve,

that's the deal.

That's the pact.

Grief is the terrible reminder

of the depths of our love and,

like love, grief

is non-negotiable."

~Nick Cave