Really need

Do you really need the person who hurt you to tell

you, "I hurt you and I'm sorry and I feel awful that I 

did it?" It's beautiful to get it but do you need it?

Do you not know how painful the pain was? Do

you need them to tell you how painful it was when 

you experienced it and give you permission to feel 

it? You don't need it.

The one who broke you cannot heal you. You have to heal you.

You can't neglect the person who broke you into

pieces to bring those pieces and say I'm going to put

you back together, you can't do that. But why

would you choose to do that? Someone who has the

power to destroy you and uses that power, why

would you trust them with rebuilding you?