Upset

 I got upset because of what you did.

You got upset because I reacted.

That's not the same. You did

something that hurt me, and I

responded because it mattered to me,

you mattered to me.

I wasn't trying to fight or make things

worse. I was just trying to be honest

about how I felt.

But instead of thinking about what

you did and why it might've hurt me,

you focused on how I responded.