Cannot lead

 From Jamir Hezekiah

A man who cannot lead will always be frustrated by a strong woman.

A strong woman carries herself with confidence and purpose. She knows what she wants and where she is going. She is not looking for someone to complete her because she is already whole.

She wants a partner, not a project or a boy pretending to be a man.

But a man who lacks direction, maturity, or ambition will not admire her strength. He will see it as a threat. He will mistake her independence for arrogance and her standards for being too much.

He will feel insecure beside a woman who chooses him but does not need him.

A man who cannot lead will feel small next to a woman who leads herself. He will try to control what he cannot compete with. He will try to silence what he cannot match. Instead of rising to meet her, he will try to bring her down. But a strong woman does not need control. She needs leadership rooted in wisdom, integrity, and love. A man secure enough to respect her voice. A man who knows leadership is not about control but about guidance and partnership. Many men want the benefits of a strong woman...her loyalty, her love, her support...but they are not prepared to lead her. Leadership means creating a safe space where she can trust, rest, and be soft without sacrificing her strength.

A man who cannot lead will want her to shrink so he feels big. But a real man will step up. He will lead in a way that honors her strength. He will walk beside her, building a path they can walk together. Ladies, never dim your light for a man's comfort. A real leader will not be intimidated by you...he will be inspired.

And men? If you are praying for a strong woman, make sure you are prepared to be a strong man. She is not looking for someone to crown. She is looking for someone already walking in wisdom, strength, and love.