Slowly fading away

 From Ladies Pass It On

(Side note: this used to be me, but not anymore, thankfully)

TO THE WOMAN WHO IS SLOWLY FADING AWAY

To the woman who has lost her spark.

To the woman whose get up and go, has well and truly

gone.

This is for you.

This is to remind you, that you don't have to be

everything to everyone, every day.

You didn't sign up for that.

Remember when you used to laugh? Sing?

Throw caution to the wind?

Remember when you used to forgive yourself more

quickly for not always being perfect.

You can get that back again.

You really can.

And that doesn't have to mean letting people down or 

walking away.

It just means being kinder to you, feeling brave enough

to say no sometimes.

Being brave enough to stop sometimes.

And rest.

It starts the moment you realise that you're not quite

who you used to be.

Some of that is good, some of that is not.

There are parts of you that need to be brought back.

And if anyone in your life is not okay with that...they are

not your people. Your people will be glad to see that

spark starting to light up again.

So, if you have been slowly fading away my friend, this is

the time to start saying yes to things that bring you joy

and no to things that don't.

It's really pretty simple.

~Donna Ashworth