From Peaceofdeace
They didn't fade because you changed.
They faded because you started noticing.
Noticing the inconsistency.
The avoidance.
The way they only showed up when it was
convenient...
but disappeared the moment you needed more
than surface-level love.
You stopped begging.
Stopped chasing.
Stopped shrinking yourself just to keep their
attention.
And that's when the mask fell off.
That's when their "love" couldn't survive your self-
awareness.
Because you weren't easier to love when you had
no boundaries
you were just easier to use.
Avoidant love isn't always loud.
Sometimes it fades quietly.
In unanswered texts.
In dry conversations.
In the way they say they care...
but never follow through.
And still, somehow, you blamed yourself.
But not anymore.
Not this season.
Because healing begins the moment you stop
asking why they left --
and start asking why you kept holding on.
If you're finally in that place...
Where peace matters more than potential...
Write the word "HEAL" below.
You didn't lose them.
You found you.
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