Was she

 From If you miss me

She's toxic, right? That's the story you're telling everyone now...but let's back up for a second. Was she toxic when she gave you her trust, completely and without hesitation? Was she toxic when she believed every word you said, even when her gut told her something wasn't right? Was she toxic when she kept choosing you, over and over, even after you showed her why she shouldn't? 

Or did she become "toxic" after you broke her spirit?

After the lies you told...after the nights she cried herself to sleep wondering why she wasn't enough...after the silent treatments, the manipulation, the disrespect, the gaslighting. After the texts from other women. After you made her feel like she was losing her mind for reacting to the things you were actually doing. You didn't just hurt her...you rewired her.

She wasn't toxic. She was tired.

She stayed through heartbreak after heartbreak, still hoping you'd change, still trying to love you through the damage. But the more she stayed, the more pieces of herself she lost. And when she finally started snapping...when the love turned into survival...suddenly, she's the problem?

No. You don't get to break a woman down and then call her crazy for not being whole.

You don't get to paint her as bitter or unstable when all she ever wanted was loyalty, effort, and truth.

The truth is, you damaged someone who would have given you the world. And now you want sympathy because she's no longer soft with you? You didn't just lose a good woman. You turned her into someone she never wanted to be. That's not toxicity...that's trauma. And it came from you.