Don't stress

From If you miss me

Don't stress about it, sis. Let him talk to whoever

he wants. Let him text whoever he wants. Let him

chase attention if that's what he values more than

the loyalty, love, and peace you brought to his life.

You've done enough. You've given enough. You've 

stayed patient, held your tongue when it hurt, and

forgave things you had every right to walk away

from. You stayed when you could've left. You

chose him when you had every reason not to. That

kind of love doesn't come around often, and deep

down, he knows that.

So stop overthinking. Stop checking your phone.

Stop wondering if you did something wrong. You

didn't. You loved him too well. You showed up too

hard for someone who didn't know how to handle

a woman like you. Let him do what he wants. If he 

decides to throw away everything you built, 

everything you offered, and everything you are...

let him.

Because here's the truth...he's not replacing you.

He's just distracting himself. He'll realize it when

it's too late. When the conversations feel empty,

when the laughs don't reach his soul, when he's

surrounded by bodies but starving for

connection...that's when it'll hit him. He lost a

woman who would've gone to war beside him,

prayed over him, believed in him when he didn't

believe in himself.

Let him ruin it if he wants. Let him play around and

see where it gets him. But don't you beg. Don't

you chase. Don't you lower your crown for a man

who can't even see the value of the throne in front

of him.

Because when you leave, sis...when you finally 

decide to stop showing up for someone who

keeps showing you he's not ready...he's going to

feel it. He's going to feel the silence. The absence.

The peace you brought. And he's going to realize

that you were the best woman to ever walk into his

life...and the worst mistake he ever made by

letting you go.