Not for you

 This list is riddled with grammatical errors, but still some good points.

HE'S NOT FOR YOU IF

1. He gets mad at you when you are expressing hurt/upset
2. He lets you sleep with a heavy heart and gives zero f's
3. Says you're complaining when you express your needs
4. He can go a whole day/s without communicating
5. He gives you the silent treatment if you argue
6. He doesn't stand up for if you're being treated badly
7. He makes himself into a victim when you call him out on his inappropriate behavior
8. He cannot express empathy when you're upset
9. He abandons you in the midst of an argument
10. Makes excuses to avoid taking responsibility
11. Chooses to end things rather than working on himself
12. He is emotionally manipulative, possessive and controlling
13. Minimizes, gaslights or stonewalls during disagreements