Got upset

 she got upset

because of your actions. you got upset because of her

reaction to your actions. that's not the same.

it's easy to get angry when someone reacts to us. we

think they're overreacting or being too sensitive. but

before you judge her reaction, ask yourself:  what

made her feel that way? what did i do to make her 

feel like she had to defend her heart?

she didn't wake up deciding to get upset. she didn't

want to fight with you. she got upset because

something you did hurt her, even if it seemed small

to you. and you got upset not because of the action,

but because she showed you how much it hurt.

she got upset because of your actions.

you got upset because of her reaction to your actions.

that's not the same , and it never will be.