Dear Hayden

I started this blog soon after the death of my beautiful 17-year-old son, Hayden, as a way to deal with my grief. I titled it "Dear Hayden" because at first I wrote as if I was writing to him. My use of the word "dear" ended up being twofold: "used as an affectionate or friendly form of address" and "regarded with deep affection; cherished by someone." Many posts are saved quotes, song lyrics, Bible verses, poems, etc. with credit given to the actual authors as much as possible. Enjoy~

Friday, October 3, 2025

Self-sabotage

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 When it's someone's first time to be treated right in a relationship, their tendency is to self-sabotage it. Not because they don...

Incredibly special

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They always saw something incredibly special in you. And they were hoping with all of their might you'd never see it too. ~Samira Vivett...

Ironic

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 Isn't it ironic? "We ignore the ones who adore us, adore the ones who ignore us, love the ones who hurt us and hurt the ones who l...

Astonishing light

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 I wish I could show you, when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being. ~Hafiz

The magic

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  When you realize you are the magic, their rejection won't rattle you, it'll just reveal who was never ready for it. ~Truly Healed ...
Thursday, October 2, 2025

Finally detached

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 What made you finally detached? I asked myself if this is how I want to be loved for the rest of my life.

Want

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No, f that. I want you. I want to love you. I want to  want you like no one else has ever before. I want to be the one you think about at 3 ...
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