Tuesday, October 31, 2023

Slight chance

If there's even a slight chance at
getting something that will make
you happy, risk it. Life's too short,
and happiness it too rare.

~A.R. Lucas

A house

Your mind is a house.

You can decorate it or neglect it.

Fill it with beautiful art, inspiring books, and cozy furniture.

Or let it accumulate dust, clutter, and mold.

You decide.

~Scott D. Clary 

Angry

 If I'm angry, there is still hope.

As long as there are tears, words, and concern - there is care.

But once I become silent,
my efforts become nonexistent
and so does your place in my life.

~Morgan Richard Olivier

The point

I think so often, what people
misunderstand about boundaries
is that the point of setting them
is not to change other peoples
behavior or convince them to
value different things - it's to
advocate for yourself, regardless
of how they respond.

~J. Daniell Koepke

Love into

 As
it turns
out, you
cannot love
someone into
loving you
back.

~KM

Madly

 I 
still haven't 
figured out how
to sit across from you,
and not be madly in love
with everything
you do.

~William C. Hannan

Terrifies most

what terrifies
me most
is not being able
to make sense
of my vulnerability.

my softness
is my reward,
but the world is cruel
and constantly
makes me question it.

~Christopher Poindexter

Small world

i'm not sure
if we were meant
to find each other

but we did.

endless possibilities
in the paths
we choose
and take mistakenly

but
there you were.

197 million square miles
of earth

and we 
connected.

the probability,
the odds,
the chances,

still had me 
find you.

maybe
it really is
a small world

after all.

~P.T. Berkey

Too

 From Ravenous Butterflies

Don't make yourself small.
Not for anyone.
If someone tells you
you're too much...
too loud, too sensitive,
too fierce, too caring,
too intellectual, too optimistic,
too realistic, too logical, too emotional...
just smile and move on, my friend.
Clearly, they aren't enough for you.

~Laura Daub

Letting go

 There is peace in letting go
of how you feel it should be 
and simply embracing what it is.

~Morgan Richard Olivier

Monday, October 30, 2023

Beauty and terror

It is both
beauty and terror
isn't it?
This thing we 
call love.
Filled with 
an undeniable glory,
and if lost,
a burden that holds
the weight of 
the world.
When it lasts,
when it endures,
it is the most
beautiful thing
that we have.
It is what
we all deep down
desire.
A love that grows
into the stars.

~Christopher Poindexter

The fairytale

anyone who tells you the fairytale
isn't real just hasn't found it yet,
or they settled for less.
but that's their story, not yours.

let yourself believe in your fairytale.

~butterflies rising

Hundreds

if you don't want to have
your photos taken because
you think you aren't pretty
enough,
just remember...

your face is a combination
of hundreds of people who
were in love throughout
time.

you are beautiful.

Magic

I don't 
need magic,
I need your 
arms around me
at 3:29 am when
the dark 
is too much, I
need you to be real
when nothing
else is.

~a.r.asher

This part

Yes,
you will rise from the ashes,
but the burning comes first.

For this part,
darling,
you must be brave.

~Kalen Dion

Breathe in

breathe in.
say it one more time.
with me:

I need to only worry
about things I can control.

~kelly riddle

Later

 "Later" becomes "too late."

-Talk to you later.
-I'll call you later.
-See you later.
-We'll walk later.
-I'll tell you later.

We leave everything for later, but forget that "later" does not belong to us.

Later, our loved ones are no longer with us.
Later, we don't hear them and we don't see them.
Later, they are just memories.
Later, the day becomes night, the force becomes helpless,

the smile becomes a grimace, and life becomes death.
"Later" becomes "too late."

~Unknown

(Little depressing but true...)

All this chemistry

we're here
with all this chemistry
in our veins,
so let's stay up
and talk
about heaven, and earth,
and of your dreams,
and my dreams...

and maybe you could come closer and
show me love-colored things

~late night conversations

From wild spirit, soft heart, butterflies rising

Align

 HUSTLE (crossed out)

ALIGN

Destroy the idea that you have to be
constantly working or grinding in order
to be successful. Embrace the concept
that rest, recovery, and reflection are
essential parts of the progress toward a 
successful and ultimately happy life.

Your energy

sweet girl,
it wasn't that you weren't enough,
it's your energy...it asks
others to rise up, and not everyone
is willing to go where they
would grow

~butterflies rising

Be one

There are
certain places
she can go where
she doesn't have 
to be perfect.
Be one of them
and she'll keep 
coming back.

~AstonGardner

The innocent

The trust of the 
innocent is the liar's
most useful tool.

~Stephen King


Some hellos

some hellos are special.
extraordinary, they are
soothing and in some not
fully understood way, they
make the world feel right.
like an overdue love letter
lost in the mail, finally
returned.

~JmStorm

At last

 AT LAST

Love looks pretty on you. It makes you soft, tender, proud.
Makes you sit up and take notice. Gives you a home to set
down your things.

What a blessing it is, to have dancing and music and poetry.
What a gift it is, to look at someone and say,

I'm so happy to have found you - at last, at last, at long, long
last - you're here.

~Lang Leav

End of my road

You are the end of
my road. After a 
lifetime of missed
exits and wrong
turns, you feel
like I'm finally 
home. One journey
ends, and another
begins with you.

~RH

Explain

 Reminder:
You don't have to explain why you
want what you want, do what you do,
love what you love, need what you
need. You are allowed to live a life
some people don't understand.

~Laura McKowen

Potential

It's my love for potential
that causes me pain.
The desire to push people
to become better with time
always has a way of making
me waste my own.

~Morgan Richard Olivier

Love Him

 When obedience to God
contradicts what I think will
give me pleasure, let me ask
myself if I love Him.

~Elisabeth Elliot

Friday, October 20, 2023

Sunshine

I cannot guarantee 
You sunshine,
but I can promise
to stand beside You,
no matter how hard
it rains...

~Matthew Spenser

Question mark

You question 
if they love you.
You questions 
if you're really 
in love.
You question...
But I've lived 
enough years
to know what love
is not supposed
to feel like. 
Love shouldn't 
feel like a 
question mark.

~Alfa

Deeper

 The deeper the intimacy you experience, the
more your shadow will feel threatened and
try to convince you to run away, as your
nervous system doesn't know how to
respond to safety and stability.

~Lorin Krenn

Perfectly luxurious

 Definitely feel this way sometimes...


I don't care what anyone
says, living alone as a
woman is one of the most
perfectly luxurious
experiences of my life.

~Heather O'Neill

Thursday, October 19, 2023

Free

What if I don't need you
to belong to me?
What if you
just continue to belong
to you,
and spend a lot of
your time 
with me?

~Free~

~J. Warren Welch

Your circle

 Your circle should
want you to win.
Your circle should 
clap the loudest when
you have good news.
If they don't, get a
new circle.

Can't save

 You can't save someone
Who doesn't want to be saved,
Especially if it comes at the cost
Of losing yourself.
You're worth more than being drowned
By the storms of someone else's
Bad decisions.

~Christie L. Starkweather

Wondering

You're worthy of clarity and certainty,
not left wondering about your place
in someone's life.

~R.M. Drake

Chose not to

You don't get to say
you miss me
if you could have had me
this whole time
but chose not to.

~chloe frayne

Deep heart

I'm not depressed. I'm not broken. Or empty.
I'm exhausted. Emotionally. Spiritually.
Physically. I just need someone to hold me.
Someone real. Someone who knows what it's 
like to have a deep heart.

~r.m. drake

First time

 When someone 
shows you who they
are, believe them the
first time.

~Maya Angelou

Messy

Love is messy.
Even the healthiest,
deepest,
truest love,
is just two messy people
trying to interact with each other
in multiple complicated ways.
If you can't handle messy,
you're not ready for love.

~Love is messy~

~J. Warren Welch

Monday, October 16, 2023

Her looks

 Forget her looks.

How about her insane
work ethic, her unstoppable
ambition, her burning passion,
and her ridiculously dope
soul.

~I Heart Intelligence

Feel like

 WHAT DOES LOVE FEEL LIKE?

One day you will meet someone
who will see the universe 
that was knitted into your bones,
and the embers of galaxies glow to life in your eyes.
And you will finally know
what love is supposed to feel like.

~Nikita Gill

belong

belong

when something is for you
it will not run or hide or
avoid being yours.

~Neon Soul


Probably harming

 From Flying Free


There is a difference between helping
someone who is disabled, incapable, or
otherwise infirm versus helping someone
who is resisting growing up and taking care 
of what every adult (or child, for that
matter) has to be responsible for: herself 
or himself. When you find yourself in any
way paying for someone else's
responsibilities, not only are you stuck with
a delayed ending, but you are probably
harming that person.

~Henry Cloud

No longer

 I have learned to no longer tiptoe around
sensitive topics, nor walk on eggshells or cater to
egos. I do not step lightly, but boldly, taking up
space, using my voice, and proudly expressing
who I am and how I feel. I refuse to make myself
smaller to make others more comfortable.
Life is too short to spend it on a leash.

~JD Lynn

Friday, October 13, 2023

Not unchristian

 It is not unchristian to
require people to treat
you in healthy ways.

~Lysa TerKeurst

One day

Every person needs to take one day away. A day in which one consciously separates the past from the future. Jobs, family, employers, and friends can exist one day without any of us, and if our egos permit us to confess, they could exist eternally in our absence. Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.  ~Maya Angelou

Thursday, October 12, 2023

Offer you

"I offer you my hand,
my heart, and a share
in all of my possessions.
I ask you to  pass through
life at my side --
to be my second self,
and best earthly companion."

~Charlotte Bronte, Jane Eyre


Let them

LET THEM

Let them argue
let them fight
let them think
they are right

let them gossip
let them rage
let them build
themselves a cage

let them judge
let them talk
let them walk
the way they walk

let them laugh
behind your back
they cannot push you
from your track

let them steal
each other's joy
let them silence
virtue's voice

let them wrestle
for the throne
let them pick flesh
from their bones

but of all
you let them do
do not let them
alter you

keep your focus
on the sky
and all the beauty
you pass by

stay within
your well-built walls
and answer only
worthy calls

let them lie
if they must
it's yourself
you need to trust.

By Donna Ashworth

Burning home

Posted on Flying Free

You are angry and anxious
because you never agreed
to live in a burning home
while the people who should care
pretend the fire doesn't exist.

Distress
is a valid emotional response
to injustice.

~Nikita Gill


Monday, October 9, 2023

Inspector

Once upon a time,
persuasive words
would give her goosebumps,
and sweet nothings would satisfy her
cravings.
The keys to her heart belonged to thieves.

But now,
she has grown to listen with her eyes,
to only trust actions,
and to study behaviors.
She has allowed time to be the inspector,
to see what it will reveal.

Prize

The Prize

We are not a love story, we are
a war that I've been waging.

I'm winning now.

I just didn't expect the prize
to be peace
instead of 
you.

~Kristina Mahr


Beautiful one day

 I believe everything will
be beautiful one day. I
even believe it is all
beautiful now and one day
I'll see that the beauty
was with me. always.
That the beauty was in
me always, too. And
I will laugh, because I
didn't need to doubt 
a thing.

~S.C. Lourie

No words

I read once that the 
ancient Egyptians had
fifty words for sand
& the Eskimos had a 
hundred words for snow.
I wish I had a thousand 
words for love, but all
that comes to mind is
the way you move against
me while you sleep

& there are no words 
for that.

Friday, October 6, 2023

A thousand

 do not
lose hope,
please believe
that there are
a thousand
beautiful things
waiting for you.

sunshine 
comes to all
who feel rain.

~r.m. drake

Tragic game

 You keep
proving me
right
in a tragic
game in which
I so 
desperately
want to be 
wrong at,
just this once.

~Samantha, Soul Spilled Sentiments

Same love

 You deserve to feel the same love you give.

~Jacqueline Whitney

Thursday, October 5, 2023

Ways

You hurt me in ways you will never know.
But from where I stand now
there is no heaviness in my heart
for the loss of you,
because I've lost nothing.

~Omar Hachem

Finally free

Finally free,
But not because of any apology.
No.
The heartbreak didn't cut you deep enough
for you to say sorry to me.
But it's ok.
My heart bled enough for the two of us.
You never really felt it because
I couldn't get beneath your skin.
Even though I tried and tried,
you never would let me in.
And that's ok too,
because today
I'm forgiving myself.
For loving you.
Becoming free
body, mind, and soul...
Broken, but healing.
Wholeheartedly.

~Samantha, Soul Speed Sentiments

Pleasing others

If you're more worried about
pleasing others than about
caring for yourself, it might
mean that there is trauma in
your body telling you that
you are only safe when other
people are pleased with you.
Perhaps it's time to heal
that trauma so you can learn
to let people down while you
honor your own needs.

~Heather Plett

Feel stupid

Don't ever feel stupid for loving someone
who turned out to be everything they 
promised they would never be. But be proud
that you still believe in the goodness of people.
because that is rare. Don't let it harden you.
Learn the lesson, but keep that soft heart.

~Stephanie Bennett-Henry

Admire most

The thing I admire most
about you
is no matter how hard,
or how much the world
has tried to
beat you,
break you,
destroy you,
and throw you to the wolves
you are still here,
turning all your pain
all your suffering
into armour,
into determination,
into weapons
and earning the respect
of that same pack of wolves
that were meant to rip you
limb from limb.

~Laddi Mae

Worth more

When i finally 
walked away
it wasn't to 
show YOU
anything.
I was showing
MYSELF that
i was worth
more.

~Alfa

Doesn't deserve

let it go, my dear

your heart doesn't deserve 
all this pain.

M

Be me

 I stepped away from it all, from life, from
everything. Because I reached the point where I
was not taking care of my heart, and it had been
too long since I gave my soul a chance to breathe
from the chaos. I wasn't going away forever; I just
needed some time to finally be me again.

~Kayil York

Truth is

the truth is, she didn't
need to be saved; she just
needed to feel loved and
know that someone out there
craved her attention.

~r.m. drake

Beautiful heart

 A beautiful heart
will bring things into your
life that all the money in 
the world couldn't get you.

~NotSalmon.com

Maybe

maybe love isn't what we've been told, maybe it's
not all romance or attraction. maybe love is a 
friend, someone who understands you. someone
who'll be there for you...even at your worst.

~r.m. drake

Little girl

i fought
for the little girl
who i was,
and for who she
wanted me to be.

and i know
she would applaud me
for who i have become.

~Happier

Guy version

 A lady told me one time, "One day
you'll just be living your life and you'll
meet someone who is like the guy
version of yourself; that's how you'll 
know."  ~Unknown


Wasn't ready

He wasn't ready to meet me
where I was, so I met him
where he was, and that's
the moment I started
destroying myself and
then called it love.

~Trudi Jane

Breakups

Breakups can be painful, no doubt. But
when you separate from someone who
didn't value or respect you, it's actually a
good thing. Instead of seeing it as a loss,
think of it as gaining the chance for a
healthier, happier future without that
toxicity in your life.

~R.M. Drake

Un

 Wherever you're unappreciated, you
should be unavailable as well.

~Unknown

For what

I love you not only for what you are,
but for what I am when I am with you.
I love you not only for what
you have made of yourself,
but for what you are making of me.
I love you for the part of me
that you bring out.

~Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Wednesday, October 4, 2023

Hardest truths

Some of the hardest truths
you will find are that

what you prioritize
will not always prioritize you

and

what you want
will not always want you

and

what you love
will not always love you

and

you have to decide
what you'll do with this.

~Kristina Mahr


Falling out

I am falling 
out of love
with you, I am.

It just takes
some time
to drain 
an ocean.

~Kristina Mahr

Some days

  Please read the caption for (?)

"On some days, I will be unlovable.
But even on those days,
don't unlove me. Just stay. Just wait."

~Rahul Kaushik

Never question

 by L.E. Bowman

I want
to never have to question
your affection.
I want
to be so sure of
your love
that my anxieties
starve
and 
die.

~Fill my head with flowers not fear

The fires

 fires.

and if you have ever been abandoned.
be a constant. if you have ever been
wrapped up in a night so dark, you
could not find you way back home.
be light. if you have ever fallen
apart into a thousand, fractured
pieces and wondered where on earth
everyone has gone. be present. if you
have ever felt unworthy. unbeautiful.
unseen. unknown. unheard. be love.
I tell you the truth. some of the most
precious things we learn, are from
the fires that we've endured.

~ullie-kaye

Madly inward

One thing they
don't tell you 
is how grief
will turn you
madly inward.
That it will
make you deal
not only with
the sudden rush
of pain,
but so too
what lived 
beneath the bone
before.
It takes a 
hellish strength.

~Christopher Poindexter

(I would change the word "hellish" to "heavenly")

Tuesday, October 3, 2023

Your empathy

 a gentle reminder~

Do not let your empathy for
others stop you from
maintaining the boundaries that
you set to protect yourself.

~Michell C. Clark

Odd

 I'm sure I've posted this before...

fall in love
with a weird one,
someone not quite
right in the head.

life is far more 
interesting when
love is odd.

~topher kearby

Completely done

 You will know that you 
are completely done with 
something when you give it up
and you feel freedom
instead of loss.

~Emily Maroutain

Monday, October 2, 2023

Not used

When you're not used to being confident,
Confidence feels like arrogance.

When you're used to being passive,
Assertiveness feels like aggression.

When you're not used to getting your needs met,
Prioritizing yourself feels selfish.

Your comfort zone is not a good benchmark.

~Dr. Vassilia Binensztok