Truly cares

 If a person truly cares about you, it

would break their heart knowing they

really hurt you. People make

mistakes, but when you tell them they

hurt you, and they respond by

gaslighting, deflecting, lying, and

manipulating, 

that is not love,

that's ego.

They are more concerned about being

criticized, judged, looking bad and 

not being the perfect people

they believe they are.

You threatened the illusions they have

of themselves, so they respond by

getting defensive. In their mind, 

you insulted them.

They don't care about how you feel, they are

angry you called them out on it.

Call them out anyway.