One of the most painful forms of relationship stress
is walking on eggshells with someone you love and
want to please. Not feeling safe to tell the truth for
fear of setting someone off means that person is
successfully controlling your behavior for his/her
benefit. When one person constantly has hurt
feelings, he/she may be using so-called "sensitivity"
to guilt-trip and control. In reality, though they claim
to want peace and tranquility, they love feeling
offended. They love the drama and the fights. They
are energized by them, while you are shattered.
Using their "sensitivity" to dominate and control,
they make it appear that you have the power to hurt
him, but they are always the one pulling the strings.
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